Saturday Adventures

Saturdays are fun days. I generally take time from my homework to spend time with my family doing fun things. Turtle has soccer now that it's fall. Here he is at his first game of the season.

 And here are Marshmallow and I watching him play.

The really cool thing is that at his game yesterday (the second of the season) he scored a goal for his team! He was the only one to score that game. Another team member kicked a goal, but it didn't count because he was inside the circle around the goal, so it didn't count. We had told him previously that if he scored a goal, we'd go get ice cream, so after the game we went out for some yummy goal making sweetness!

One of our recent saturday adventures included a trip to a lake where we had yucky mud baths, played in the water and other wet and wild fun. On the way home we stopped by sonic for dinner. Turtle ate an ENTIRE foot long chilly dog from there.

 Marshmallow got a grilled cheese with fries.

That was BEFORE the new car... I wonder how we'll make those semi-muddy and wet trips now that we have a clean, new car.

A New Set of Wheels

Our Saturn is a few years old. She's been a good little car, but now that she's about 12 years old, she's starting to wear down. When Daddy and I met, I had a car and so did he, but he had given his to his older brother. The ironic thing is that the cars were almost identical. Mostly just a slightly different color and mine had a key fob to unlock the car. After we got married, we ended up eventually giving my car to my sister and her new husband and we got Daddy's car. It wasn't a big deal because there wasn't much difference between the two.

Daddy has recently been shopping for a replacement car. It was totally fine with me. I knew the car would give out one day and we'd need it, so why not start looking? Then Thursday he asked if I wanted to go test drive a car... No biggie. We test drove minivans for several months before we bought one. So, we went and test drove a Ford Focus. It was a nice little car. Not too expensive and not too old and in great condition. It was easy to drive and has cruise control. Daddy liked it. I liked it. The Brownies LOVED it! The car salesman tried REALLY hard to get us to buy that night. We didn't. Daddy wasn't too sure he wanted to get it, and we never rush into a large purchase like that. I knew there was a possibility we would go back today for it, but when Daddy came in and told me that he was going to call the dealership and see if they would give him what he wanted for trade in, car price and financing, it threw me for a loop! Suddenly, the possibility went from only possible to real! I was totally fine Thursday with the idea of getting a new car, but now, I was getting cold feet! I would miss the Saturn! I had a history with that car! I loved that car! I almost felt like I was giving up on a loved one or pulling the plug on a loved one.

So, I stewed and fretted over it for an hour or so whilst Daddy went to talk to the dealership and have them look over the vehicle. By the time I got the text asking me to come and sign papers, I had fed the kids, gotten my camera and decided that we might as well do it now. I could say goodbye to our faithful carriage after 8 or more years of amazing reliability. And although I will miss our little Saturn, I will enjoy our new Ford Focus, especially the cruise control and the other features that help keep me from letting my lead foot take over!

So, here we are with the Saturn and then my family inside the new (to us) Focus!

And I can honestly say, there were NO tears involved!

A Tale of Two Donuts

This post is going to have to be mostly about me. These past two weeks have been CRAZY! My first week of student teaching was so much fun, but very hard on my back or my feet depending on the shoes I wore. I got some really comfy shoes from Clarks - with about 1 1/2 inches of heel. It was the smart thing to do to keep my feet from hurting, right? Well, I discovered the hard way that higher heels help my back not hurt. So, now I need to get me a nice pair of 3 in Clarks heels! After school has been hard as well, but in a different way.

My mentor teacher is awesome! During the first week of school I observed for 2 days and was teaching portions of the lesson by the third day. It's gone very well and this past week I have taught every day a little more of the classes. I got to do instruments with 2nd-5th grades. It's been a bit of a challenge - remembering what all to teach as far as expectations for playing instruments, how to play the instruments and then the parts on each instrument. The hardest part has been that, since there are 3 different instruments, the students have to take turns practicing them. That means there is dead time for 2/3 of the class and that turns into a serious potential for talking. Luckily, the classes have been mostly behaved. I've had to give reminders, but mostly that's all.

Today, while my mentor was outside in the hallway watching thru the window, one of the kids decided he needed to talk. I reminded him not to. He did again and I made him and his friend he was talking with sit on the risers to behave while I was practicing with the others or he would loose his turn playing the instrument. He was good for that practice time, so I let him and the others back with the instruments. On the next round of instruments, I caught him talking again while I was working with another group. He lost the opportunity to play at all. Later he had a conduct card written. Come to find out, he'd been hitting (apparently not hard) a friend with one of the instruments while I was working with a group.

Another incident today was that during 6th grade choir, my teacher got a call then she had to leave for a bit. I suddenly got thrown into teaching the 6th grade by myself - no help and no prep time! The projector we were using to help the kids see all the words to their music wasn't working the way it should and I couldn't figure out how to fix it, so we had to turn it off, then it wouldn't start again. Needless to say, the kids got talking and I could never get it back under control completely. SO, they didn't get to have their letter for the day to give them recess time on Tuesday. But for the most part, the class went well all things considered. We got through everything we were supposed to cover and I figured out how to work it all without my mentor there to help me. I came up with a plan B and will have to make sure I'm more prepared for an incident like that in the future!

The after school situation is difficult as well. At school, the energy from the kids helps me push through the day and enjoy it. At home, the energy from my kids drains me till I can't take it anymore. It's like I'm a different person in some ways. I come home tired and exhausted and then while I'm trying to get dinner on or the kitchen somewhat under control, my brownies are running around like hyperactive noise machines. Mostly, they are trying to have fun, but I need their help with things here and there (like having them bring their folders so I can see what they brought home), setting the table or emptying the dishwasher. But they just ignore anything I do to try and get some help with all the myriad of things needing to be done. They've already had time to play and relax, but I don't get that - hardly ever. I try to spend time with them (usually at the park or something active) then go home and work on homework while getting them ready for bed and work on homework while they go to sleep and work on homework till I get up, get things ready for the next morning and then I can shower and go to bed. By then, Jacob's been in bed for a while and asleep too.

I'm ready to be done with school. I would rather be either a stay at home mom, or if I do end up working, I'd like to do it without all the added school work on top of it. I feel like I'm a fun, cheerful person at school and a stressed, student mom at home. I need to find a way to get the two different Donuts to merge and be a smaller, better Donut!

Burning Energy

Now that school is in session, life has become QUITE different in Brownieville! Our brownies are almost unrecognizable after school. They've always been very active, but since school started, they come home and it's worse. Turtle is certainly not slow! He seems like he's become an ADHD monster - he can't hold still, he doesn't focus, he is in constant, crazy, noisy motion! Marshmallow isn't as bad, but she's definitely got more energy than she needs. It comes out in giggles. Sugar Daddy and I have had our hands full and our sanity nearly removed trying to deal with their high energy level. So, here are some of the things we do to remove the energy from their bodies.

Daddy is teaching Marshmallow to ride her bike...

It's fun to watch her learn. She's full of giggles and so excited to be doing it, but Daddy has to be right there every minute to catch her. And she loves to look all over everywhere which means she wobbles all over the place. Luckily, Daddy is very dependable at keeping her from having a hard fall.

 Sometimes he needs a break.

Here's Turtle on Daddy's ripstick! He's become quite proficient at wiggling his way down the sidewalk, street, or in this case, around the parking lot. Luckily a local park has an extra parking lot in the back that's usually mostly deserted.

 They also have a sandbox. Children have been know to be buried in it... This time it was Turtle. They even had other kids helping to bury him.

 He didn't let them bury him too much though.

Marshmallow on the other hand helped them bury her until she was in enough that she couldn't help. And she giggled the entire time!